Grief Therapy | Loss & Bereavement Support

If grief has brought you here, I want to honor that first.


Loss can change the shape of ordinary life in ways other people may never see. You may be answering emails, making dinner, showing up for work, caring for the people you love, while something inside has been fundamentally rearranged. Grief has a way of changing not only what we feel, but how we experience time, memory, identity, and the future itself.


I'm Danielle Wiggins, and I founded Space Takes Practice because I believe grief deserves more than psychoeducation or a timeline. It asks for space. For witness. For relationship.


Through somatic psychotherapy, contemplative practice, and embodied care, I offer a place where you don't have to rush yourself toward meaning or closure. Together, we listen to how grief is moving through your body, your relationships, your memories, and your everyday life. We come to know this grief on a level beneath cognition, learning how it's asking to be lived with, honored, and woven into the life that continues.


I believe grief is one of life's profound thresholds. My role isn't to lead you out of it, but to accompany you as you discover how this loss is reshaping your life, your relationships, and your way of being in the world.


On this page, you'll learn more about grief therapy, how I approach this work, and whether this way of working feels like the right fit for you.

What Is Grief Therapy?

Grief therapy is a space to be with loss in a way that does not rush you toward closure, acceptance, or meaning before you're ready. Grief can emerge after the death of someone you love, but also through illness, relationship endings, identity shifts, life transitions, or the loss of a future you imagined.


Grief doesn't only affect how you feel. It demands a witness.


It can reshape your relationship with time, memory, your body, your sense of identity, and the future itself. You may find yourself moving through daily life while something inside feels profoundly changed.


I don't see grief as something to solve or move beyond. I see it as one of life's deepest thresholds—a profound reorganization of your inner world. Together, we listen to how grief is living in your body, your relationships, your memories, and your everyday life, creating enough space for what has changed while remaining connected to yourself, to others, and to what continues to matter.

Grief can look like

  • Moving through the day while something inside feels profoundly changed.
  • Feeling as though time has stopped for you while life continues around you.
  • Finding that a song, a place, a smell, or an ordinary moment suddenly brings the loss close again.
  • Wondering who you are now that this relationship, role, future, or chapter has changed.
  • Feeling pressure to be "better" while your grief is still asking for your attention.
  • Not knowing how to carry both love and loss at the same time.

When grief therapy may be helpful

and no checklist that tells you whether your pain is "enough." Still, you may recognize yourself in some of these experiences:


  • Do I feel like I am functioning, but not fully present?  You may be moving through responsibilities while feeling emotionally far away, heavy, foggy, or changed on the inside.
  • Do waves of grief arrive without warning? A song, date, smell, place, object, or quiet moment may bring the loss close again, even when you thought you were doing okay.
  • Do I feel pressure to be further along than I am?  Grief often moves more slowly and less neatly than people expect, especially when others stop asking before the loss feels integrated.
  • Has the loss changed how I relate to myself, others, or the future? You may notice shifts in identity, trust, desire, belonging, or what feels meaningful now.
  • Do I need a place where I do not have to make the loss smaller? Grief therapy can offer space for what is still tender, unresolved, loving, angry, confusing, or hard to name.

When this approach may be a good fit

Many of the people who find their way here aren't looking for someone to explain grief to them. They're looking for a place where they don't have to rush, hide, justify, or make their loss smaller.

This is a slower, relational approach that honors grief as something that moves through the body, memory, relationships, identity, and the rhythms of everyday life. Together, we create space for what has changed and listen for what this loss is asking of you now.


Many of the people I work with are functioning well on the outside while quietly carrying heaviness, longing, anger, numbness, or disorientation inside. They often feel pressure—from themselves or others—to be further along than they are.


This work isn't the right fit for everyone. If you're looking for someone to push you toward closure, positivity, or a fixed timeline for healing, there may be approaches that better match what you're looking for.

What working together can look like

We begin with what feels most present. You may want to talk about the loss directly, or you may only be able to name the heaviness, fog, anger, numbness, or disorientation around it. There is no need to tell the story in a complete or organized way. Grief often arrives in fragments, and we can begin with the fragment that is here now.


Our sessions are grounded in conversation, body awareness, memory, ritual, creative exploration, and quiet reflection. We may talk about anniversaries, dreams, family dynamics, continuing bonds, anger, regret, loneliness, or the strange moments when life looks ordinary from the outside but feels completely altered within. Sometimes the work is about speaking what has never had a place. Sometimes it is about sitting quietly with what words cannot hold yet.


Many people begin with weekly sessions while grief feels active, raw, or disorienting, and we adjust the rhythm of our work as your needs change. Progress rarely looks like being "over it." It often looks like having more room to feel, more support around difficult dates, a deeper relationship with memory, and less pressure to make your grief acceptable to others. The loss remains significant. What changes is your capacity to live alongside it with greater support, connection, and care.

Grief therapy specialist

 

I'm Danielle Wiggins, a somatic psychotherapist and the founder of Space Takes Practice.


I support people moving through grief as an embodied, relational, and deeply human experience. I understand grief as one of life's profound thresholds—one that asks us to reorient to ourselves, our relationships, and the life that continues after loss.


Many of the people who find their way to my practice are living with grief that doesn't fit neatly into the ways it's often talked about. The person they lost may have died by suicide or overdose. The relationship may have been loving and painful at the same time. There may be estrangement, family conflict, unanswered questions, secrecy, guilt, relief, or a story that feels impossible to untangle.


When grief carries this kind of complexity, it can feel especially isolating. I believe therapy offers something deeply important here—not answers or simplification, but enough room for the full complexity of your experience to exist without asking it to become more straightforward than it is.


My work is rooted in somatic psychotherapy, contemplative practice, creative expression, movement, and relational and existential thought. You don't have to arrive with a clear story or a finished meaning. We begin with what is here now, listening together for what this loss is asking of you and making space for the ways it is reshaping your inner world.


Beginning where you are: Gentle practices for coping with grief

Small invitations to help you stay in relationship with yourself as grief moves through you.


  • Let grief arrive in pieces. You do not have to feel everything at once. When a wave comes, notice where it lands in your body. You might breathe, cry, move, write, or simply sit quietly for a few moments before returning to your day.

  • Create gentle rituals around difficult days. Anniversaries, birthdays, holidays, and ordinary reminders often carry more than we expect. Lighting a candle, taking a walk, preparing a favorite meal, visiting a meaningful place, or making space to remember can help you meet those days with intention rather than surprise.

  • Don't rush toward meaning. Sometimes grief needs to be lived before it can be understood. It's okay if there isn't a lesson, a silver lining, or a clear story yet.

  • Return to the body. Food. Water. Warmth. Rest. Movement. Touch. Grief can make ordinary care feel surprisingly difficult. These aren't solutions—they're quiet ways of helping your body carry what feels heavy.

  • Let other people help you in specific ways. The people who love you may not know what to do. Sometimes the kindest thing you can offer them—and yourself—is clarity. You might ask for company, a meal, a walk, quiet, or simply someone willing to listen without trying to make your grief smaller.

Hi, I’m Danielle Wiggins

An Associate Marriage and Family Therapist based in Santa Monica and the founder of Space Takes Practice.

Payment plans and details

  • Investment

    Somatic psychotherapy is a collaborative, relational process that unfolds over time. Sessions are designed to support awareness, integration, and meaningful change across the body, mind, and emotional life.


    Individual Somatic Psychotherapy

    $265 per 50-minute session

    Most clients begin with weekly sessions, though the rhythm of our work can be adjusted based on your needs.


    Limited sliding scale spots are available when space allows. If cost is a concern, you’re welcome to ask about availability during your consultation.

  • Extended Sessions & Therapy Intensives Somatic Psychotherapy

    Longer sessions are available for clients who want deeper immersion in a single sitting. Extended sessions (90 minutes–3 hours) can be especially supportive for EMDR work or when exploring complex experiences that benefit from additional time.


    Investment varies depending on length and format and can be discussed during your consultation.

  • Insurance

    Space Takes Practice is an out-of-network practice. Payment is due at the time of service, and a superbill can be provided for potential reimbursement through your insurance plan.

FAQ

Is it possible to grieve someone who is still alive?

Yes. Some of the deepest grief happens when someone is still alive. You may be grieving an estranged parent, a partner whose illness has changed your relationship, someone living with addiction, or a person who is physically present but no longer emotionally available. You may also be grieving the relationship you hoped for but never had.


Grief isn't limited to death. It can arise whenever something meaningful has changed or can no longer be what it once was. Therapy offers a place to honor these losses without asking you to justify why they hurt so deeply or whether they are "big enough" to grieve.

What are the 5 stages of grief therapy?

The five stages of grief are often named as denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. They can be useful language for understanding some of what grief may bring, but they are not a checklist and they do not happen in a neat order. Many people move in and out of different grief states, skip some, return to others, or feel several at once. Cleveland Clinic describes the stages this way and also notes they do not always happen in order.


In grief therapy, I use these stages carefully. I do not see them as a map you must follow to prove you are healing. Instead, we may use them as a way to name what is present: numbness, protest, longing, sadness, adaptation, or moments of acceptance that come and go. The goal is not to get you to the final stage. It is to help you have enough support, space, and connection as grief changes over time.

What is the difference between grief and depression?

Grief and depression can overlap, but they are not always the same. Grief often comes in waves and is usually connected to a specific loss, memory, relationship, or change. You may have moments of sadness, numbness, anger, longing, or disorientation, and then moments where you can still feel connection, meaning, or even relief. Depression tends to be more persistent and can affect your sense of worth, motivation, pleasure, sleep, appetite, and ability to function across many areas of life.


It is also possible for grief and depression to exist together. Prolonged or intense grief can become disabling and affect everyday functioning in ways that may need additional support. The American Psychiatric Association recognizes prolonged grief disorder when intense grief remains persistent and significantly interferes with life. In therapy, we can make space for grief without pathologizing it, while also taking seriously signs that you may need more support.

Does grief ever go away, or is it forever?

Grief usually changes rather than simply disappearing. Over time, it may become less raw, less constant, or less physically consuming, but that does not mean the person, relationship, identity, or life you lost stops mattering. Many people find that grief becomes something they learn to carry differently, with more room for memory, love, anger, meaning, and daily life to coexist.


I do not think healing means forgetting or becoming untouched by the loss. It may mean that your body has more support around what happened. It may mean difficult dates become more manageable, memories feel less destabilizing, or you can feel connected to what mattered without being overtaken every time. Grief can remain part of your life, but it does not have to remain alone, unsupported, or as sharp in the same way forever.

Can I only start grief therapy if someone died?

No. Grief therapy is not only for death loss. You can grieve a relationship ending, a diagnosis, a version of your body, a home, a community, a future you imagined, a creative identity, a family rupture, infertility, caregiving changes, or a life transition that altered your sense of self. The American Psychological Association describes grief as anguish after significant loss, and that loss may be broader than death alone.


If something meaningful has changed and your body, emotions, relationships, or daily life are still carrying the impact, grief therapy can be a place to bring that. You do not have to prove the loss is “big enough.” We can begin with what has changed, what still hurts, and what needs space now.

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